Annie Fox for Teens... Hey, Terra!

Hi there… How’s it going? Probably not all that great or you wouldn’t be here looking for help. No worries. Teens have been emailing me since 1997 because I give good advice. If you’ve got a problem with friends, so-called friends, a bf/gf, a parent, or anything else… email me. I can help you sort out your feelings. No matter what’s going on, you always have choices. And choices matter because sometimes the stuff we do to “fix” a problem only makes things worse. You don’t want to go there. Instead, let me help you figure out your next best move

In friendship,
Terra (aka Annie Fox)

From Terra’s Inbox

“My stepfather tells me I am ugly, fat, and stupid.”

 

“My mom is against my staying with my aunt.”

Hey Terra,

Okay I am 14 years old and hate my life. I have a lot of guy friends but the ones that I like either have a g/f or don't wanna date... but they are willing to be friends with benefits and I don't want that. I don't know what to think of myself. Many people tell me I am beautiful, but there are some who tell me I am ugly and I believe it. The worse part is my house. I hate being here. I am always so depressed when I am here. My stepfather tells me that I am ugly, fat, stupid, and a lot of other stuff. But his son my half-brother is perfect in his eyes. He plays sports, is always home and...

 

Hey Terra,

I've been invited to go live with my aunt and three cousins for the summer. My aunt said she could get me a job at the hospital she works at, and my cousins have a weight set that I can use to stay in shape. However, my mom seems set against it. She gives me all these reasons why I can't go, such as my aunt is low on money and she might loose her house, but when I go to check it out, my mom is wrong. I tell her in the nicest possible way (really, if I ever backtalk, my mom would not take it), but then she comes up with another reason why. Her favorite right now seems to be they are a bad...

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